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Although I do not claim to be an expert in this area I have had some experience in it. The technical term for a golden shower is urophagia. In short, this is when a person gains some form of sexual gratification by thinking or seeing urination. This practice can be found in some D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships, in which both parties gain pleasure from dominating someone or being dominated themselves as a form of sex play or it can even be a lifestyle. (Stay tuned for more on D/s relationships and S&M in a blog coming soon). Some people are grossed out by the idea of being on either side of this sex act, but in the paragraphs to follow, it is some folks cup of tea.

Before getting to my experience, let me share a story about my friend who has been actively involved in this sex act for some time. She was in a D/s relationship with this man for over two years and the golden shower was just as vital when they were intimate as breathing air. It was a must. She was the submissive partner in this relationship, but don’t let that confuse you with her low self-esteem or being stupid. This became part of her sexual lifestyle.

He would make her drink cups after cups of water to prepare her for the finale. Seeing her urinate was what really turned him on and helped him to climax. It was to the point where they had an extra bed in the room with plastic on it just for this event. Sometimes he would have her squat over the bathroom sink to watch it leave her body and flow down the drain. Its hard for me to distinguish if she was doing it because she actually enjoyed it herself or if it just came with the territory of her fulfilling her role as being the submissive. No one was being hurt in the process, so if she liked it, it loved it for her.

Unlike my friend, my experience wasn’t part of being in a D/s relationship and it only happened once. For me it was pretty embarrassing but it seemed to be right up my sexual partners alley (so to speak). We have never had a discussion about it prior to it happening either. He was a guy from the military so keep in mind as you read my story of their mentality of if something needs to get accomplished, by all means it will!

While having intercourse I told him we needed to stop because I felt the need to use the bathroom. Although he heard me several times stating this, he would not stop giving me that “Good Good”. In fact, he insisted that I “pee right there”. He pinned my pelvis down and I literally could not move. I actually began to cry proclaiming that I needed to go. He would not stop. And it happened. I urinated on him, myself and the edge of the bed. Without missing a stroke, he wiped himself off, placed the towel under me and began to give me oral sex.

Needless to say that I was flabbergasted by what just occurred and very embarrassed. It did not seem to bother him a bit. He ejaculated seconds after and so did I. I don’t know if it was having sex with a full bladder, watching his response to my urination, or both, but I climaxed as well. After the deed was done, his response to it was as, “damn that was hot!”

To date I’m still shocked that I urinated on someone and the events that transpired afterwards. Would I do it again? Not if I had the option. It is literally a messy situation to clean up. But what I can say is that I’ve experienced it. Please take note that if this is something you would want to venture into, have a discussion with your partner and by all means use plastic covering.

From your befuddled Diva,

Ms. Juicy